People react in a different manner
depending on the situation they are involved in. The situation impacts their performance and
how they interact with those around them.
The mood of the situation plays a role in how the message is delivered
and the type of audience will also influence the information being
presented.
One performance I gave was at my
parents’ fiftieth birthday celebration.
My entire father’s side of the family was present, which consisted of
about forty people. It was the largest
audience I had spoken to at the time, and despite them being my family, I was
still nervous. However, the occasion was
one to celebrate, and the speech I gave my family was full of humor and
memories that everyone could relate to.
It was more a conversation with a large group of people than a formal,
structured presentation. My voice was
loud and full of enthusiasm since there was n entire room full of people that
needed to hear me. It gave everyone an
opportunity to share fond memories they had of my parents and the whole
performance was very light-hearted.
A very different conversation took
place though with my grandfather before he passed away. Sadly, his battle with cancer was coming to
an end and everyone in the family knew it but it was a fact they were trying to
ignore. The last conversation I had with
my grandfather was much less jovial than that of my parents’ birthday. I noticed I spoke in a much softer tone and
at a slower rate than I would have in any other conversation. It was obvious I was at a loss of words most
of the visit, and I knew it was painful for my grandfather to speak. In this case, it didn’t matter as much what
was said but rather enjoying the company of each other and speaking when we
both felt it was necessary.
In my previous examples it is clear
how the situation impact the performance.
Somber occasions call for a more serious conversation where your
audience will hold on to every word that is said. More festive occasions are more fun and put
everyone in a good mood. It is the
delivery of the message. Softer, slower
speech will draw an audience closer while a loud joking manner will release any
tension there is in the room. Finding a
way to relate to the audience is the most important way to have an effective
performance. It is about the quality of
what is said more than how many words are spoken. Each individual situation influences the
performance of the speaker because each situation calls for a different attitude
and way to convey the information and emotions.
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